நல்ல குடும்பத்தில் பிறந்தவர் ஒழுக்கம், உண்மை, நாணம் என்னும் இம்மூன்றிலிருந்தும் விலகமாட்டார்.

ஒழுக்கம், வாய்மை, மானம் ஆகிய இந்த மூன்றிலும் நிலைதவறி நடக்காதவர்களே உயர்ந்த குடியில் பிறந்தவர்களாகக் கருதப்படுவார்கள்

உயர் குடியில் பிறந்தவர் ஒழுக்கமும் வாய்மையும் நாணமும் ஆகிய இம் மூன்றிலிருந்தும் வழுவாமல் இயல்பாகவே நன்னெறியில் வாழ்வர்.

The high-born will never deviate from these three; good manners, truthfulness and modesty

This Thiru Kural verse (952) emphasizes the three fundamental virtues that are considered the hallmark of nobility or high birth, irrespective of societal status or wealth. These virtues are: good manners (Ozhukkam), truthfulness (Vaiyamai), and modesty or respect (Naanam). Good manners (Ozhukkam) refers to the appropriate, respectful, and ethical behavior one exhibits in their daily interactions. This includes being mindful of others' feelings, honoring societal norms and expectations, and conducting oneself with dignity and respect. Truthfulness (Vaiyamai) underscores the importance of honesty and integrity. It is about being truthful in words and actions, keeping promises, and not deceiving others. Modesty or respect (Naanam) refers to being humble, showing respect to others, and maintaining one's dignity. It discourages arrogance, rudeness, and disrespect. Thiru Kural asserts that those who embody these qualities are truly high-born or noble, regardless of their socio-economic background. Their nobility is defined not by their birth or wealth, but by their character and conduct. The verse emphasizes that those who uphold these virtues will never deviate from them, as they are ingrained in their character. In essence, this verse prompts us to understand that real nobility or high birth is not about lineage or wealth, but about maintaining good manners, being truthful, and upholding modesty and respect.