பார்க்கும்போது மனம் மகிழாமல், முகம் மட்டுமே மலரப் பழகுவது நட்பு அன்று. அன்பால் மனமும் மலரப் பழகுவதே நட்பு.

இன்முகம் காட்டுவது மட்டும் நட்புக்கு அடையாளமல்ல; இதயமார நேசிப்பதே உண்மையான நட்பாகும்

முகம் மட்டும் மலரும் படியா நட்பு செய்வது நட்பு அன்று, நெஞ்சமும் மலரும் படியாக உள்ளன்பு கொண்டு நட்பு செய்வதே நட்பு ஆகும்.

The love that dwells (merely in the smiles of the face is not friendship; (but) that which dwells deep in the smiles of the heart is true friendship

This verse from Thiru Kural talks about the true essence of friendship. The poet, Thiruvalluvar, delineates the difference between superficial and genuine friendship. The verse states that the friendship which is only evident in the outward smiles of the face is not real friendship. This kind of friendship is superficial, temporary, and often based on external factors. It might be driven by personal gains, societal status, or any other transient benefits. Such a friendship is not grounded in the depth of the heart and can wane over time or due to changing circumstances. On the contrary, true friendship is deeply rooted in the heart. It's not merely expressed through visible smiles, but it's a profound affection that resides in the core of the heart. True friendship is not influenced by external circumstances or personal benefits. It is steadfast, sincere, and enduring. It's not merely about outward expressions but internal feelings and emotions. Hence, the poet emphasizes that real friendship is much more than just smiles and pleasantries. It's about the unfeigned love and affection that resides in the heart, making the bond strong and everlasting. This verse encourages us to value and nurture such friendships, which bring true joy and fulfillment.