பெண்களுக்குக் காதல் மிகப் பெரிதாகுமானால், கணவனோடு மிகச் சிறிதளவும் ஊடாமல் இருக்க வேண்டும்.

பனையளவாகக் காதல் பெருகிடும் போது தினையளவு ஊடலும் கொள்ளாமல் இருக்க வேண்டும்

காமம் பனையளவாக நிறைய வரும்போது காதலரோடு தினையளவாகச் சிறிதேனும் ஊடல் கொள்ளாமல் இருக்க வேண்டும்.

If women have a lust that exceeds even the measure of the palmyra fruit, they will not desire (to feign) dislike even as much as the millet

Kural 1282 emphasizes the importance of sincerity and honesty in expressing feelings, particularly in the context of a romantic relationship. The verse uses the metaphor of 'palmyra fruit' and 'millet' to depict the intensity of emotions. The 'palmyra fruit' is used as a symbol of large and overpowering emotions, specifically romantic passion or lust, while 'millet' represents the small, feigned expressions of dislike or modesty. The verse advises that if a woman's romantic passion or lust is as overwhelming as a 'palmyra fruit', she should not feign dislike or modesty as insignificant as 'millet'. In essence, the verse encourages women to be authentic and straightforward in their feelings, and not to mask their true emotions with pretense or insincere expressions. This advice, while rooted in the cultural context of ancient Tamil society, holds universal value. It emphasizes the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships, and discourages the playing of games or the use of manipulation. The underlying moral lesson is the importance of being genuine in expressing one's feelings, as this leads to stronger and more meaningful relationships. This Kural suggests that when love or passion is strong, it should be expressed openly and without pretense, promoting a healthy and honest relationship.