நாம் காதலித்தவர் நம்மைக் காதலிக்கவில்லை என்றால் நமக்கு எத்தகைய மகிழ்ச்சியைத் தருவார்?

நான் விரும்பிக் காதல் கொள்வது போன்று அவர் என்னை விரும்பிக் காதல் கொள்ளாத நிலையில் அவரால் எனக்கு என்ன இன்பம் கிடைக்கப் போகிறது?

நாம் காதல் கொண்ட காதலர் தாமும் அவ்வாறே நம்மிடம் காதல் கொள்ளாதபோது, நமக்கு அவர் என்ன நன்மை செய்வார்?

He who is beloved by me, what will he do to me, if I am not beloved by him ?

This Thiru Kural verse, Kural 1195, explores the dynamics of unrequited love. It essentially questions the value and joy derived from loving someone who does not reciprocate the same feelings. The verse states, "He who is beloved by me, what will he do to me, if I am not beloved by him?" This phrase is an introspective question that the poet poses, questioning the ramifications of one-sided love. It reflects on the emotional turmoil and lack of fulfillment that comes when the love one extends is not reciprocated. The verse suggests that the happiness derived from a relationship is contingent upon mutual affection. If the person one loves does not hold the same affection, it casts doubt on the joy and benefits that could be gained from such a relationship. This verse serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of reciprocity in love, urging individuals to reflect on their relationships and the nature of the affection they hold for others. In a broader sense, the verse also encourages self-respect and self-love. It implies that one should not settle for less in relationships and should seek out mutual love and respect.